Family Kingdom

Strong families are build on strong relationships and strong relationships are build on a very clear sense of who we are and what is our purpose. We begin our journey by looking at the subject of identity. We will learn who we really are and what makes us valulable; for person without value cannot receive nor give love effectively. We will step through the book called Identity Wars as a means of locating ourselves on the Map.

In the book we will examine the question often asked: "am I really worth something?" Have you ever felt depressed about life? Have you ever felt upset by the fact that other people seem to ignore or reject you? This little book explores the reasons why millions feel this way and where this type of thinking started. Here are a few comments from others wo have read or listened to the book.

 "Life changing series. Once I grasp the impact of the message my life took a complete turn about."

 "The identity wars audio series is an absolute gem, the deep concepts explored and answered are the "hearts longing", I recommend this to anyone"

"A series of real impactful thoughts for those seeking truthful answers, in todays complex world."

You can either read the booklet or listen to an audio version. Click on Read More to access the book and audio files

[Listen to Chapter] It had been a long day at work. We were in the final stages of preparing a budget –actually about ninety budgets that had to be merged into one. It was a delicate process, carving up the available income amongst all the ambitious managers, each wanting, hoping, even demanding a bigger slice of the pie to achieve their goals. My mind was trying in vain to push all these figures out of my head when suddenly the phone rang. “Hello…It’s Dad, son.” Dad sounded like he had the empire state building on his shoulders “What’s up Dad?” “Mum’s been in a serious car accident.” Those words hit me like a sledge hammer. I immediately began to shake and my heart rate literally doubled in a flash. My muscles went taut as an adrenaline rush took over my body. “Accident?” I almost whispered into the phone trying to hold it steady. “How serious?...” “It’s pretty serious son.”

[Listen to Chapter] We were racing down the freeway at a great rate of knots. Lorelle’s contractions had developed into a pretty regular pattern. We didn’t want to be caught out, so we bolted for the hospital. It was all very new and exciting; soon we would have our first child. We glided up to the labour ward, the nurse took one look at us and said, “You’re too happy, you need to go for a walk”. Well that put a hole in our drum. 45 minutes later we came back and now Lorelle wasn’t smiling any more. Another 30 minutes and we landed right in the middle of labour. Yep, there is no other word to describe it, labour, hard labour. We tried to remember all the techniques from the prenatal classes but it was hard to stay focused. Those contractions hit like a freight train coming head on. As soon as you had dealt with one the next one was straight on top of you. Finally after 11 hours, we received our first born son, Michael.

“My wife and I are separated” he said painfully. “I just didn’t see it coming,” he said immersed in regret. We talked about the challenges he was facing and then he blurted out “I can’t handle not seeing the kids – it just kills me.” I could see he was struggling to hold himself together and I really felt his pain. I earnestly wished that I could have helped him. His final comment was “I just don’t know which way is up any more or where I am headed.”